Many have learned to be strong in your “Masculine” Essence to succeed in this world which, although may be empowering and beneficial while doing business and completing tasks, can be at the expense of your Feminine expression.

In my practice, I incorporate a unique combination of tools and techniques derived from the practices of Counseling, Coaching, Tantra, and optional Hands-on Healing. This enables a woman to understand and experience her True “Feminine” Essence which can enrich her relationships by breaking through barriers to intimacy and sensuality.

At various times, throughout our history, women were often revered for their wisdom and became the leaders of our communities. Their natural Feminine essence of intuition, love and harmony were guidelines for how we, as a society, lived our lives.

Sadly, over time women were forced into a secondary role in society. Men have come to dominate all aspects of religion, business and politics as a means to maintain control and therefore power, the result of which has been that the Divine Feminine guidance was all but quashed or limited to the role of home and childcare.

Both men and women have Masculine (Yang) and Feminine (Yin) characteristics. Yang characteristics are active states which incorporate implementing plans, defending territory and doing business while the Yin characteristics embody intuition, nurturing and love. It is the Feminine side that enables us to “go with the flow” and “surrender to the now”.

Only in the last couple of generations have women started to regain their rightful place in society, a place of equality, dignity and respect. This has been particularly apparent during the Feminist Movement of the 1960’s when major injustices were brought to our attention.

Slowly, changes began to be implemented which resulted in women returning to positions of power in the community and the work environment. However, since men had held positions of control for so long, in order to be effective, women found that they needed to bring forth their natural Yang abilities in order to succeed in what had become "a man’s world". The results of this strategy are that women, who may be strong in their Yin energy, have become strong in their Yang.

At the same time, men who have long exercised their strong Masculine are now being influenced by society that this is no longer acceptable. They are taught that they should be a "sensitive new-age guy", soft and sensitive, loving and nurturing. This is fine and wonderful in and of itself, but the balance has been lost. Men can now appear weak in their Masculine and, since the Feminine side is new to them, they can also be weak in their Feminine. As a consequence women now take control of the relationships and all aspects of life simply because they seem to be better qualified.

How do these role reversals affect the dynamics of relationship? Both men and women have a need and desire to fully experience all aspects of their Feminine and Masculine, but in order for a woman to experience her Feminine she needs to be able to fully surrender into a spontaneous, natural flow of the moment. One way way for her to do this is to relinquish control, which is only possible if she feels that it is safe enough to do so and part of this safety is based in a knowing trust that her partner will take care of immediate circumstances. Is she able to do this if the man is not assertive, clear and strong? Probably not.

There is also another requirement in surrendering to the moment which is that she must feel her partner's love, and then trust that his intuition will guide him. Can this occur if he is weak in his Feminine? Not likely.

A woman cannot surrender to her Divine Feminine unless she is in the presence of a man who is strong in his Feminine AND strong in his Masculine.

In my Practice, I intuitively create a safe, respectful environment for a woman to experience herself in the presence of a man. I can also assist in breaking through barriers which have blocked her intimacy and sensuality which will ultimately lead to a deeper understanding and a more joyful experience of self and relationships.

Through this new awareness of Self, I will teach a woman how to access her Feminine radiance and how to guide her partner, or potential partner, to "show up" in a way to fully satisfy all aspects of both herself and her relationships.

A great deal can be achieved with an ongoing coaching relationship with me. I can gently and clearly help you to identify the belief systems which you have adopted in your life that prevent you from fully living your Truth. This will result in greater clarity from within so that you can show your self as the radiant, sensual and powerful woman that you are.

While this is an important part of the process there is another step that may be taken, if you choose, with which you can fully embody and integrate all aspects of your feminine. As a Certified Tantra Instructor, I can teach practices that will fully awaken your feminine. In Tantra, we set the intention to allow your natural sexual energy to rise and, with some simple practices involving breath and intention, it is possible to experience profound feelings of love.

Unfortunately, there is a wide spread belief in the west that Tantra is just about sexuality but in truth, this is just one aspect. In simple terms I think of Tantra as a combining of Sexuality and Spirituality but this ancient and beautiful practice incorporates the entire Art of Life. It is also about, diet, meditation, environment, relationship with ourselves and others. It is about making choices for our highest good, which automatically is for the highest good of all.